Pay Attention to Your Thoughts (2024)

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We live in a time and reality where what we accept as ‘real’ is entirely governed by what we can perceive with our five senses. Everything that falls out of that "range" is considered "nonexistent" until "proven". But the way I see it, if we think that we can extract the whole "truth" about our existence or the nature of reality on the basis of what our ordinary five senses present, then we will never see, smell, touch, feel or hear the whole truth about the essence of who we are. In order to understand the inherent creative power, you have through your thoughts and beliefs you have to take a quantum leap with me and allow yourself to play with the idea that you are the creator of your own reality and that your mind is the tool.

Everything in the Universe is made of energy vibrating at different frequencies. What differentiates me from you and sand from water is the vibrational frequency. Thoughts and things are made of the same essence—energy—the only difference being that thoughts vibrate at a higher frequency than things. The reason you need to pay more attention to your thoughts is that on a deep level of quantum reality "high-frequency-thoughts" slow down into "low-frequency-things". Simply put—thoughts become things. The more you believe in a thought the more ‘solid’ it becomes and the more it affects the energy around you. It doesn't matter if the thought is positive or negative, if you want it or if you don't want it. The more thoughts of the same vibration, the stronger the belief and the more probable it is for that thought to manifest in the form of a thing, situation or relationship. Now, multiply this with all the people on earth and you have a "solid" reality perpetually manifesting itself unconditionally mirroring all our beliefs about fears and joys, hate and love, darkness and light.

The reason so much in life can seem chaotic and "random" is because most of your deepest thoughts and beliefs about yourself and your reality are obscured by a veil of unconsciousness. You allowed them, unconditionally, into your mind during your early childhood. You did this by mirroring your parents, siblings and neighbours—long before you could speak and "translate" your thoughts into conscious words and concepts. School, the media, news, book, and movies affected your way of thinking in your past and solidified the ‘preprogrammed’ beliefs about how reality works. All of which literally makes your present life someone else’s creation. Because if the reality you are generating is based on unconscious, automatic responses that were created in your past, then your reality now (the reflection you are looking at in the present) is not your own creation: it is generated through you, but not by you.

This is one of the reasons why most of us seem to be "cruising" through life on autopilot. The reality you are manifesting or generating is very much determined by what you habitually "know" and automatically believe about it. Your beliefs "speak" directly to your subconscious mind which is entangled on a deep level of reality, with the very fabric of the Universe. Without hesitation, the Universe executes the "orders" and reflects your exact frequency back to you in 3D. So you see, you are manifesting things all the time, even in your sleep.

Your thoughts are thus not insignificant. They are important because you are interacting with a conscious Universe which not only "hears" what you say but more importantly knows what you feel and believe. And the rule is—What you believe you receive.

So then, it is not what you say out loud but what you think when you are alone that has the greatest impact on how your life unfolds. The most important relationship you will ever have is with your self. It affects everything else in your existence. You believe everything you say to yourself. The Universe is always responding to your beliefs. When you start paying more attention to what you are telling yourself things start to change.

Let me give you an example:

Thinking about what you want is a desire flowing from a positive frequency. Thinking about what you don't yet have is a fear vibrating at a negative frequency. It looks the same but gives very different results. For example; When you say "I don’t want fear in my life", you tune in to the negative frequency of "not wanting fear", instead of the positive frequency of "feeling safe". You end up "not wanting" something, instead of "feeling good". The difference between these seemingly related thoughts is that one tapsintoo the frequency of abundance, the other to scarcity—manifesting “versions” of reality that can be compared to “heaven” and “hell”. Be conscious of your frequency by focusing on the feeling of what you want to experience.

You can either choose to increase joy, love and abundance by consciously focusing your thoughts on harmony, creativity, and strengths, no matter the circ*mstances. Or you can unconsciously waste half of the energy by focusing on anger, guilt, doubt, weakness and failure. There is always a choice. Always.

Some of you might say, but doesn't that kind of inner exploration require work and time? How can I explore my inner self when I feel so stressed out that I can't even set aside 5 minutes during the day to meditate or just to slow down my own thoughts?

The truth is that you don't need to "set aside" extra time in your already busy schedule to come into a meditative state where you can actively choose what thoughts you want to explore. You can incorporate it into your everyday routines by now and then switching over to, what I call, "appreciation mode" and automatically change the frequency of your being.

I will give you an example:

If you are walking through the park, take time to stop for a few seconds to stand under a tree and feel the unconditionally loving energy coming from it. It is standing there, tuning you into the right frequency by giving you shelter from the rain or the sun. Inviting you to listen to the sound of its leaves in the wind, to smell the sap from its bark...Always at your disposal. Wanting nothing in return...whispering "I am always here for you". Which by the way, everything else in nature also offers. In abundance.

When you see children playing, stop for a few seconds and emerge in the beautiful bubbly energy of their youth. It is their natural state of being and they are mirroring it back to you. With no effort at all. Feel the joy. Embrace it and allow it to remind you of your own “natural state of being”.

Allow yourself to be interrupted by the flickering of a butterfly, a smiling face, a funny cloud formation. Face the sun, taste the rain, feel the wind in your hair. Simply be present.

So, why am I going on about relaxing your mind? Because, when you nourish your soul with gratitude, it opens your mind to a bigger picture. Love is a higher frequency allowing you to see more opportunities in every area in your reality even at work. Allowing thoughts of fear and worry to occupy the "space" in your head lowers your frequency making opportunities invisible.

Know this—your mind is a tool with which you create your reality. This is why everything that does not belong in your ideal reality shouldn't be in your thoughts. When you are in a state of appreciation your frequency is sending signals to the Universe, All That Is, the quantum field, God (we all have different names for it) that you are ready to get more of the same thing. Because, make no mistake, you attract what you believe. And you believe everything you think, feel and say to yourself. Why not believe in the good things?

Pay Attention to Your Thoughts (2024)

FAQs

What does it mean to pay attention to your thoughts? ›

Mindfulness also involves acceptance, meaning that we pay attention to our thoughts and feelings without judging them—without believing, for instance, that there's a “right” or “wrong” way to think or feel in a given moment.

How do you pay attention to your thoughts? ›

While every person differs, the following strategies can help you stay mentally focused:
  1. Get enough sleep each night.
  2. Reduce the distractions in your environment.
  3. Focus on one task at a time.
  4. Try to be more present in the moment.
  5. Practice mindfulness.
  6. Give yourself short breaks to clear your mind.
  7. Limit your social media use.
Mar 28, 2023

Should you pay attention to your thoughts? ›

The reason you need to pay more attention to your thoughts is that on a deep level of quantum reality "high-frequency-thoughts" slow down into "low-frequency-things". Simply put—thoughts become things. The more you believe in a thought the more 'solid' it becomes and the more it affects the energy around you.

What does it mean to be aware of your thoughts? ›

Goal: Metacognition is the capacity to see thoughts as thoughts. Our default way of being is to be caught up in thoughts, to not even realize that we are thinking, and to assume that whatever thoughts we are having are true.

How not to pay attention to your thoughts? ›

Most meditation practices offer a support for this. It may be your breathing, or a candle, or the sounds around you — anything that transports you from your headspace into the present. These offer a place to shift your attention to the moment you notice you and your thoughts get tangled up.

Why is paying attention important than thinking? ›

How we think things are is often different from how things really are. Paying attention is what keeps us on the right track. There is great power in the humility of simply trying to see the world as it is without trying to fit it into your preconceptions.

Why are thoughts so important? ›

It helps us to know ourselves, to understand our emotions and to choose how we behave. The problem, however, is that our mind is not always a safe place.

How do you talk to your thoughts? ›

  1. Start off small. If you are shy or have a difficult time speaking your mind, start off small. ...
  2. Think before you speak. Though some people don't speak their minds at all, others speak without being considerate. ...
  3. Keep calm. ...
  4. Join a group. ...
  5. Do it in writing.
Oct 1, 2011

Why are your thoughts important? ›

Your thoughts have incredible power to shape your life and the lives of others, because your thoughts and interpretations of circ*mstances directly influence your beliefs, and ultimately, your actions.

Why you shouldn't judge your thoughts? ›

Your thoughts are private and personal, and having a wide range helps strengthen your authentic self—not the self you think you should have. Though they may cause you to feel discomfort, thoughts are neither good nor bad, but may be positive or negative, beneficial or harmful. And, to a large extent—surprise!

Is it good to ignore your thoughts? ›

Trying to suppress a thought will keep it alive because you're spending time and energy on it. Trying to ignore it wouldn't be that different. You're still trying to get rid of it and in an attempt to ignore it, you might avoid situations that could trigger it, which is putting the thought in charge of your life.

Are you supposed to hear your thoughts? ›

The bottom line

This is a completely natural phenomenon. Some people might experience it more than others. It's also possible not to experience internal monologue at all. While considered a natural process, some forms of inner speech could be cause for concern.

Can you control your thoughts? ›

We are aware of a tiny fraction of the thinking that goes on in our minds, and we can control only a tiny part of our conscious thoughts. The vast majority of our thinking efforts goes on subconsciously. Only one or two of these thoughts are likely to breach into consciousness at a time.

How do you realize you are not your thoughts? ›

Identify your thoughts and accept them

Instead, it means that you consciously realize that you are having these thoughts and acknowledge them as they are without trying to change them. This approach is the best out of all and has the most long-lasting effect if done correctly.

How do you know if your thoughts are true? ›

Ask questions. When you have a thought you're not sure about it, question it. Ask yourself if it makes sense, if it's likely, and if there's evidence to support the thought. This is a good way to assess whether your thoughts make sense and if there is evidence to support them.

How do you ignore thoughts in your head? ›

Simple Steps to Stop Negative Thoughts
  1. Pause a Moment. If you are feeling stressed, anxious, or stuck in negative thinking patterns, PAUSE. ...
  2. Notice the Difference. NOTICE the difference between being stuck in your thoughts vs. ...
  3. Label Your Thoughts. ...
  4. Choose Your Intention.
Dec 3, 2022

Why can't I control my thoughts? ›

People who are distressed by recurring, unwanted, and uncontrollable thoughts or who feel driven to repeat specific behaviors may have obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). The thoughts and behaviors that characterize OCD can interfere with daily life, but treatment can help people manage their symptoms.

Should I pay attention to intrusive thoughts? ›

See a mental health professional if unwanted thoughts are starting to disrupt your daily life, particularly if they're impairing your ability to work or to do things you enjoy. However, even if intrusive thoughts aren't affecting your life in a significant way, you can still see someone to get help.

What does attention do to the brain? ›

In general, the changes associated with attention are believed to increase the signal-to-noise ratio of the neurons that represent the attended stimulus, however they can also impact communication between brain areas. To this end, attention's effect on neural synchrony is important.

What are the benefits of paying attention? ›

14 Benefits of Paying Attention to Your Feelings Every Day
  • You will learn about yourself. ...
  • Youll be more present in your body and in the moment. ...
  • You will make better decisions. ...
  • Youll be less vulnerable to what other people think. ...
  • You will have the option to manage and control your feelings.
May 17, 2020

Why attention is important in mental health? ›

Attention plays a critical role in almost every area of life including school, work, and relationships. It allows people to focus on information in order to create memories. It also allows people to avoid distractions so that they can focus on and complete specific tasks.

Do thoughts have any power? ›

Your thoughts are immensely powerful. They determine how you feel, your decisions and your actions – every part of your life that you can control. Your thoughts are one of the most powerful tools you will ever have in changing your life.

Do your thoughts create your reality? ›

Quantum physicists will tell you that our thoughts are the source of reality. Everything we experience is a product of thought energy. Furthermore, we're all connected through the collective consciousness. This is nothing more than an energy field that responds to emotions and thoughts by creating reality.

What is the power of the thoughts? ›

The power of thought is an astonishing energy and the greatest power which mankind has at its disposal. What a person thinks is the mainspring of all of his or her actions. It is the power which can make the highest achievements possible.

How do you let your thoughts flow? ›

Stay in touch with the sensations of breathing while letting all experiences flow through awareness. Get a sense of your body as a whole as you breathe. If your attention focuses on just one part of it, keep widening your awareness to include the whole body. Relax and abide as a whole body breathing.

What is it called when you speak your thoughts? ›

If you often freely speak your mind, people may say that you are outspoken.

How do you think clearly? ›

5 steps to thinking clearly and achieving your goals
  1. Check Your Attitude. ...
  2. Have a Clear Purpose. ...
  3. Use Your Passion to control your Emotions. ...
  4. Use your Negative Thinking to produce Positive Action. ...
  5. Use Cool Logic in Hot Situations to reach your Goal.
Sep 14, 2015

What makes your mind powerful? ›

Self-confidence and the belief in one's ability to perform and to make decisions is one of the most important characteristics of a healthy mind. Training yourself to think optimistically and find the positive in every situation will most certainly help to build mental stamina over time.

How can your thoughts impact you? ›

Your thoughts are a catalyst for self-perpetuating cycles. What you think directly influences how you feel and how you behave. So if you think you're a failure, you'll feel like a failure. Then, you'll act like a failure, which reinforces your belief that you must be a failure.

What is the value of thoughts? ›

It is purely by thinking deeply that you can make an idea better, clearer and well-defined. It is as important to think about the action, as it is to act.

Do thoughts actually matter? ›

So, yes, thoughts do matter; the choices we make about how to hold and use our own thinking do matter; the general thinking we take to heart or set aside matters.

Do bad thoughts define you? ›

Finally, thinking a bad thought does not mean you are a bad person, nor does it not mean that you want to do bad things. Unfortunately, for some individuals their thoughts can be so strange, upsetting, or repugnant* that they find it hard not to view themselves as “bad” or “sick.” *Repugnant means disgusting.

How do you accept your thoughts without judgement? ›

Not judging may not always be possible, but we can certainly aim to quieten our mental chatter: when we take a mindful moment we can observe that we are thinking without engaging with the actual content of our thoughts. You can describe your thoughts as “I am thinking” without adding further descriptions.

How do I stop overthinking and negative thoughts? ›

These tips can help you move in the right direction.
  1. Step back and look at how you're responding. ...
  2. Find a distraction. ...
  3. Take a deep breath. ...
  4. Meditate. ...
  5. Look at the bigger picture. ...
  6. Do something nice for someone else. ...
  7. Recognize automatic negative thoughts (ANTs) ...
  8. Acknowledge your successes.

What happens when you suppress thoughts? ›

Negative effects of suppression

Thought suppression is found to be a key contributor to mental disorders such as such as depression, anxiety disorder, panic attack, and obsessive-compulsive disorder5.

What is it called when you can't hear your thoughts? ›

It's called antaphantasia and for years he thought when people said "picture in your mind.." that is was just a metaphor. "We just spent hours comparing memory, dreams, and other brain-related experiences." Share this on.

Do you hear your own voice in your head when you think? ›

Whether you refer to your internal voice as your inner dialogue, self-talk, internal speech, or stream of consciousness, an internal monologue is the voice inside your head that you can “hear” when you think.

Why can I hear my own thoughts? ›

Scott theorized that copies of our internal voices produced by the predictive brain signal can be created even when there is no external sound. In effect, our inner voices are the result of our brain internally predicting our own voice's sound.

How do you let your thoughts come and go? ›

Here are 4 steps that could help you start letting go of those negative thoughts:
  1. Take a step back. First and foremost, it can be helpful to remember that you are not your thoughts, you're simply holding onto them right now. ...
  2. Acknowledge them. ...
  3. Feel into them. ...
  4. Thank them and make room.
Jun 7, 2021

What is blank mind syndrome? ›

Mind-blanking—when our minds are seemingly “nowhere”—is defined by a lack of conscious awareness. During periods of blankness, the individual is not focally aware of any stimuli, either internal or external.

Can your brain tell the difference between thoughts and reality? ›

Our brains can't tell the difference between reality and our thoughts. Practically, this only makes sense. For example, It doesn't matter if an anxiety sufferer is experiencing an anxious situation or imagining it, they will experience a stress response either way.

Can anxiety make you think things that aren't true? ›

Anxiety can be so overwhelming to the brain it alters a person's sense of reality. People experience distorted reality in several ways. Distorted reality is most common during panic attacks, though may occur with other types of anxiety. It is also often referred to as “derealization.”

Do thoughts come from the heart or mind? ›

Heart vs Mind

In human beings, the thought process originates in the mind or the brain that is inside the head of an individual. Logical, rational thinking is attributed to the brain or the mid of a person, but when it comes to emotional thinking, it is the human heart that takes precedence over his mind.

What does it mean to pay attention to something? ›

: to concentrate on. Pay (close/careful) attention to what she says.

What does trying to collect my thoughts mean? ›

phrase. DEFINITIONS1. to spend a short time thinking before making a decision or forming an opinion.

Should you pay attention to intrusive thoughts? ›

People who find that intrusive thoughts are exacerbating mental conditions like depression, anxiety and OCD should seek professional help — as should those who are unable to undertake daily tasks or sustain relationships because of intrusive thoughts.

How can I listen to my thoughts? ›

10 practices to get in touch with your inner voice.
  1. Create space in your life and schedule. ...
  2. Practice deep listening. ...
  3. Don't neglect self-care. ...
  4. Try journaling in the morning. ...
  5. Develop boundaries. ...
  6. Learn more about intuition. ...
  7. Get curious about fleeting moments of insight. ...
  8. Mind your physical and mental health.
Jan 18, 2021

What is it called when someone pays attention to everything? ›

careful, meticulous, scrupulous, punctilious mean showing close attention to detail. careful implies attentiveness and cautiousness in avoiding mistakes. a careful worker. meticulous may imply either commendable extreme carefulness or a hampering finicky caution over small points.

What is another way to say pay attention? ›

synonyms for paying attention
  1. accepting.
  2. attending.
  3. concentrating.
  4. hearkening.
  5. heeding.
  6. interested.
  7. receiving.
  8. attentive.

What is another word for paying attention? ›

taking heed; giving close and thoughtful attention. synonyms: attentive, heedful, thoughtful.

What's another word for gather your thoughts? ›

Some common synonyms of ponder are meditate, muse, and ruminate.

Why do thoughts come into your mind? ›

Neurons release brain chemicals, known as neurotransmitters, which generate these electrical signals in neighboring neurons. The electrical signals propagate like a wave to thousands of neurons, which leads to thought formation. One theory explains that thoughts are generated when neurons fire.

Do thoughts always mean something? ›

Thoughts are not meaningful. The content of your thoughts is not important. What is important is how you treat your mind. If you take everything it says seriously, give it too much respect, and put too much trust in your mind, that is a recipe for an anxiety disorder.

How do you remove thoughts from your mind? ›

Simple Steps to Stop Negative Thoughts
  1. Pause a Moment. If you are feeling stressed, anxious, or stuck in negative thinking patterns, PAUSE. ...
  2. Notice the Difference. ...
  3. Label Your Thoughts. ...
  4. Choose Your Intention.
Dec 3, 2022

What happens if you ignore intrusive thoughts? ›

Active “ignoring” can trigger an additional sense of being in denial (and thus more anxiety). It can quickly devolve into a habit of “white-knuckling” through life, which is unsustainable.

Is it normal to hear your own thoughts? ›

Internal monologue means more than just pondering over your own thoughts. It consists of inner speech, where you can “hear” your own voice play out phrases and conversations in your mind. This is a completely natural phenomenon. Some people might experience it more than others.

Can you control what thoughts you have? ›

We are aware of a tiny fraction of the thinking that goes on in our minds, and we can control only a tiny part of our conscious thoughts. The vast majority of our thinking efforts goes on subconsciously. Only one or two of these thoughts are likely to breach into consciousness at a time.

Should I listen to my intrusive thoughts? ›

Don't engage with the intrusive thought or try to dissect it. Allow the thought to pass by through observation instead of panic. Know that you're in control of what you do and a thought is just a curiosity. Meditate regularly if you can.

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